So, you finally bought a sex toy — or you’re thinking about it. Welcome to this. You are not alone. There is nothing wrong with wanting to know how to use sex toys properly.
Here’s the fact: many individuals in Nepal buy sex toys, but they never learn to use them properly. Many are too embarrassed to ask questions or just guess at using them and end up having poor experiences. That’s why exactly this guide exists.
Whether you’re a complete beginner or just looking for a clearer picture, this step-by-step guide will walk you through everything simply and without judgment.
Before You Use Any Sex Toy—Start Here
No matter which sex toy you bought, new users must follow these first steps. Skipping them is the most common mistake of first-time users.
Clean It First
Before you use a brand new toy, clean it. Even if it came sealed in packaging, it has passed through manufacturing and shipping. Use warm water and mild soap or a proper sex toy cleaner. Let it dry completely before use.
Check the Charge or Batteries
Nothing kills the mood faster than a toy dying half way. If your toy is rechargeable, charge it before using it for the first time. If it is battery-operated, change the batteries. Don’t do it when the time comes;; do it in advance.
Pick the Right Lubricant
This is one of the important steps that is often skipped by people in Nepal. Using the wrong lubricant can harm your toy or cause irritation. Here’s a simple rule:
- Silicone toys → use water-based lubricant only
- Glass or metal toys → any lubricant works
- Masturbators → water-based lubricant always
Never use coconut oil, petroleum jelly, or lotion as a substitute. They degrade toy materials and can cause infections.
Find Your Private Space
It sounds obvious, but it does matter. Especially in Nepal, where many people live in joint families or shared rooms. Make sure you are comfortable, relaxed, and have privacy. Stress and discomfort make any experience worse.
How to Use a Vibrator (For Women)
Vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for women in Nepal, and for good reason. They are safe, beginner-friendly, and come in many sizes.
Step-by-step:
- Apply water-based lubricant to the tip of the vibrator
- Start on the lowest vibration setting—don’t jump to the highest immediately
- Begin with external stimulation around the clitoris—don’t insert anything until you’re comfortable
- Gradually increase the intensity based on what feels good
- If your vibrator is designed for internal use, only then explore that option—go slowly.
A few tips:
- You don’t need to use every setting on the first try.
- There’s no “correct” way—explore what works for your body.
- Vibrators with multiple modes give you more options to experiment.
Ready to find the right one? Browse vibrators available in Nepal and pick a beginner-friendly option that suits your comfort level.
How to Use a Dildo
A dildo is a non-vibrating insertable toy. They need more preparation than vibrators, but used properly, they are totally safe.
Step-by-step:
- Clean thoroughly before use.
- Apply generous amounts of water-based lubricant—more than you think you need.
- Start with a smaller size if you’re a beginner—don’t try to rush.
- Go at your own pace—there is no hurry.
- If you feel any discomfort or pain, stop immediately.
Important: Never use a dildo anally without a flared base. This is a safety rule, not a suggestion.
If you’re not sure which size to start with, check out our dildo collection in Nepal — each product listing includes size details to help you choose confidently.
How to Use a Masturbator
Male masturbators—also known as masturbation cups or strokers—are the most popular sex toys for men in Nepal. The steps are simple to use once you know them.
Step-by-step:
- Warm the masturbator slightly with warm water—this makes the experience more realistic and comfortable.
- Apply water-based lubricant generously inside the sleeve and apply lubricant on yourself.
- Insert slowly and find a comfortable grip and rhythm
- Adjust pressure and speed based on preference
Common beginner mistakes:
- Not using enough lubricant—this causes friction and discomfort
- Using the wrong lubricant—silicone or oil-based damages the sleeve material
- Skipping the warm-up—a cold masturbator feels unnatural
Clean it immediately after use. Masturbators trap moisture and bacteria if left unwashed—this is non-negotiable. Check our complete guide on how to clean sex toys safely in Nepal for detailed instructions.
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How to Use a Sex Doll
Sex dolls are more expensive, but proper use greatly increases their longevity.
Step-by-step:
- Unpack carefully — avoid sharp objects near the material
- Clean all openings with warm water and mild soap before the first use
- Apply water-based lubricant to any area you’ll be using
- Handle the doll gently — rough handling causes tears in the material
- After use, clean thoroughly, dry completely, and store in a cool, dry place away from sunlight.
Storage tip: After the doll has dried, lightly dust it cornstarch or renewal powder to maintain the material’s softness and avoid stickiness.
Browse sex dolls available in Nepal if you’re still deciding which one to get.
How to Use Toys as a Couple
One of the finest method to develop intimacy as a couple is to use sex toys together, but it starts with a conversation rather than the item itself. If you’re curious about the deeper advantages, read our post on the benefits of using sex toys — it covers physical, emotional, and relationship benefits in detail.
Talk first:
- Ask your partner what they’re curious about or comfortable trying
- Don’t introduce a toy without discussing it beforehand
- Make it a shared decision, not a surprise
Which toys work well for couples:
- Vibrators used during foreplay
- Couple’s rings that benefit both partners simultaneously
- Massage wands for full-body relaxation before intimacy
The secret is to use toys to enhance your experience rather than to replace connection. Communication makes all the difference.
Looking to add something new to your intimate routine, explore our collection of sex toys designed for couples to discover products that can enhance pleasure, improve connection, and create exciting shared experiences.
After Use — Cleaning and Storage
This is as important as the experience itself. The fastest way to infect or damage your toy is to neglect cleaning.
How to Clean by Material:
| Toy Material | Cleaning Method |
|---|---|
| Silicone (non-motorized) | Boil for 3 minutes OR wash with soap and water |
| Silicone (motorized/vibrating) | Wipe with damp cloth and mild soap — never submerge |
| TPE/TPR (masturbators, dolls) | Warm water and mild soap only — dry thoroughly |
| ABS Plastic | Soap and water, dry completely |
| Glass or Metal | Boil or dishwasher-safe (top rack) |
Storage Tips:
- Store each toy separately—different materials can react and degrade each other
- Keep in a clean pouch or breathable bag
- Avoid direct sunlight and extreme heat
- Never store toys when they are still wet
Common Beginner Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the best intentions, beginners make these mistakes. Now you won’t have to.
- Skipping lubrication — the most common and most avoidable mistake
- Using the highest setting immediately — always start slow
- Not cleaning before and after — non-negotiable for hygiene
- Storing toys together — materials degrade each other
- Buying the wrong size first — always start smaller than you think you need
- Ignoring discomfort — if something hurts, stop. Pain is not part of the process.
Frequently Asked Question
Yes, completely. In Nepal, using sex toys alone is safe, common, and becoming more popular. It is neither bad nor harmful.
Use water-based lubricants only. Over time, silicone-based lubricants degrade the silicone material. Before purchasing lubricant, always read the label.
As long as you clean it properly, you can use your toy regularly. When hygiene is maintained, frequent use has no health risks.
Look for toys made up of stainless steel, glass, ABS plastic, or 100% silicone. Stay away of toys that are sold without any material information or that have a strong chemical odor.
Yes, reputable stores like Love Paradise Nepal ship in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of what’s inside. Your privacy is protected at every step.
Ready to Explore?
Now that you know exactly how to use sex toys safely and correctly, the rest is simply about finding what works best for you. Take your time, stay curious, and don’t let anyone make you feel embarrassed about your own choices.
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